Recently, my close friend shared a shocking story with me about her boyfriend possibly cheating on her. At first, I thought she was overreacting. She then pulled out a pair of her boyfriend’s boxer from her purse and showed me what appeared to be some kind of residue with a long strand of purple-looking weave clamped down on it. By her reaction I could tell she was sooooo angry, mortified, and disgusted! She was at the top of her voice shouting, “dat dutty wothless stinkin’ john crow.” “Iffa eva ketch ‘im, police wudda lock me up.” I sat there puzzled thinking to myself, “wait a minute!” “a nuh last week she did a gi bun pon fi har man.”
You know I warned her that “if yu live inna glass ‘ouse, don’t throw stones.” Bwoy… me and my goat mout!
Both men and women have trust issues. Some will even go to the extreme to prove their partner is cheating. How far would you go?
Some women and men have gone to the extent of searching their partner’s pockets, wallets or purses, cellphones and laundry. Some even search the garbage bin. But, isn't that something mad people generally do! Some people even go to the extreme of searching their partner’s underwear.
It just may have happened that your partner has hired a private investigator, or maybe you’re even thinking of getting one. But, if you don’t want your partner to cheat on you, do not cheat on your partner. Dr. Marina Katz in her review of a WebMD feature entitled: “Why Women Cheat” confirmed that revenge is one of the main reasons why cheating occurs. So, “if yu live inna glass ‘ouse, don’t throw stone”, as the possibility exists that your partner may want to (1) cheat to get even or (2) cheat to affirm their self-worth after you've ‘dogged’ him/her out.
Remember the Golden Rule “do unto others as you’d have them do on to you.”
And… please DO NOT call your partner and pretend to be some secret admirer to find out if he/ she would actually cheat. Like, why would you do that?
As the late Peter Tosh advises in his 1983 song release “Glasshouse"....“If you live in glasshouse don’t throw stone. And if you can’t take blows, don’t throw….”
Written by:
Evadne Brown, Tash-Shawna Doeman & Sheavon Taylor
Edited by:
Sheavon Taylor & Evadne Brown
You know I warned her that “if yu live inna glass ‘ouse, don’t throw stones.” Bwoy… me and my goat mout!
Both men and women have trust issues. Some will even go to the extreme to prove their partner is cheating. How far would you go?
Some women and men have gone to the extent of searching their partner’s pockets, wallets or purses, cellphones and laundry. Some even search the garbage bin. But, isn't that something mad people generally do! Some people even go to the extreme of searching their partner’s underwear.
It just may have happened that your partner has hired a private investigator, or maybe you’re even thinking of getting one. But, if you don’t want your partner to cheat on you, do not cheat on your partner. Dr. Marina Katz in her review of a WebMD feature entitled: “Why Women Cheat” confirmed that revenge is one of the main reasons why cheating occurs. So, “if yu live inna glass ‘ouse, don’t throw stone”, as the possibility exists that your partner may want to (1) cheat to get even or (2) cheat to affirm their self-worth after you've ‘dogged’ him/her out.
Remember the Golden Rule “do unto others as you’d have them do on to you.”
And… please DO NOT call your partner and pretend to be some secret admirer to find out if he/ she would actually cheat. Like, why would you do that?
As the late Peter Tosh advises in his 1983 song release “Glasshouse"....“If you live in glasshouse don’t throw stone. And if you can’t take blows, don’t throw….”
Written by:
Evadne Brown, Tash-Shawna Doeman & Sheavon Taylor
Edited by:
Sheavon Taylor & Evadne Brown
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